For males, dating is always about banging pussy, any pussy, to satisfy an urgent, overwhelming, and even painful need.

When a male copulates with a female, a "switch" flips on in his brain, and he becomes emotionally bonded to her and filled with a desire to provide for her, to protect her, to love her. Males want to find somewo to love, and to be loved, but those desires are in the background until after copulation has occurred, after, that is to say, he has been captured by a female.