You will not find real community in any of the places that practically everywo looks for it.

You will not find it in chat rooms or blogs or websites or user group "communities". You will not find it in cities and towns and neighborhoods that call themselves "communities". You will not find it in clubs or associations or churches. These groups can be coalitions formed to cooperate to promote a limited economic group interest, such as advocating for a political party or supporting each other in the use of a product. But "real community", as used here, refers to a coalition of people formed for the purpose of living a "way of life" in order to survive and prosper in a hostile jungle.